It's not complicated, but it's difficult

Tuesday, February 4, 2014


So far, we haven’t been good at posting regularly. I kept on reminding the hubby that he should write a post about the January budget and just an overall update on how much debt we have paid off so far, but he has been so busy at work lately. I doubt that he wants to spend any more time looking over numbers. Hopefully soon he will post about the details of our monthly budget and exactly how much we have paid off and expect to pay off in the next couple months. 



I will only talk about one number-specific thing. I got another paid in full notification! We paid off $2,200.00. It’s not a huge number, but still motivating. It’s also helpful because the money that we were paying each month for that loan will go into the snowball effect for the other loans. We plan on paying off a $3,000-some loan by the end of March (see, this is why I shouldn’t be the one who talks about the exact numbers; I don’t really know what I’m talking about). After that, the loan amounts drastically rise. Even though it’s still been kind of difficult to stay motivated and on track the past few months, it has helped that the loan amounts have been smaller since each time one is paid off, it’s like a mini celebration and confirmation that what we are doing is working. The loan amounts (since we are doing the debt snowball) will get larger and larger. This means that it’s going to take longer and longer to get the satisfaction of paying each of them off. We will need to figure out how to stay motivated (anyone have any tips!?) since it will probably feel like we are getting nowhere for awhile. But I know that what we are doing is the right thing for us in the long run.

It’s crazy how much my behavior has changed already. Changing your behavior is absolutely necessary to paying off debt. If you don't change your behavior, then it won't work. For example, I’ve been wanting a new purse now for many months. Parts of it were starting to fall apart awhile ago and this past weekend the zipper completely broke. Instead of buying a new one (which I totally would have done before we started this journey), I’m now using one of my “old” ones (one that is starting to get worn out too). This example is trivial, but it shows that I’ve learned to make due and be grateful for what I have. With a lot of material items that I want or experiences that cost money, I always tell myself that our goals are more important. I want to be debt-free, I want to buy a house, I want to have a family, and so forth, WAY more than I want the newest whatever-it-is.

What we are doing is not complicated, but it is difficult.


1 comments:

Elisabeth said...

I found this blog through a post Nate made on Another71, and have now read back through all the posts...very interesting to read through and fun to see another young couple making some sacrifices to pay off debt!

I do have an idea for motivation after the payoff notices get more rare...well 2 versions of an idea. One thing I did was make a big chart that looked almost like a old-style thermometer (which I put on my bedroom wall - this was in my single days ;) ) showing the outstanding debt and as I paid if off, I'd fill in part of the tube to show it was paid off - like the fundraising charts that people will have on their websites. This way I could tangibly see it getting paid off. However, the sum that I was dealing with at that time was much smaller, so I could see progress fairly quickly (was about 8 months from start to finish for paying off that debt).

Another idea I had thinking more specifically about your situation - or anyone with a longer-term debt payoff - would be to have somewhere that you can put - and change! - a "debt payoff date". Like figure out when you would be debt-free if you just made the minimum payments, and keep updating that date regularly. From what I've gathered, you're officially on 10-year payments, so I'm guessing it'd be Fall 2023 originally? Of course since you're paying off 1 at a time, the current loans would still have a Fall 2023 payoff date, but if you were to figure it by applying just the lump-sum minimum payments to the outstanding loans (I think it was around $1500 at the start if my memory is any good?), then the payoff date on the outstanding loans wouldn't be 2023 - maybe 2022? 2021? Given that your real goal in paying this off is to be able to start "real" life when they're paid off, getting to change that date by a year every couple months might be very inspiring. :)

Just some thoughts and ideas. We're working on our house mortgage right now, which is a payoff notice that will be great to get but not one that will come quickly...so I'm trying to come up with creative ways for us to track its progress, too. :)

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